MANAGE YOUR ANGER TO SAVE YOUR RELATIONSHIP----BY ANDREW ADEDAYO ADETOYE

Don't give room to anger in your relationship. Anger does more damage to a relationship than any other known factor. Don't give in to it. Many people out of anger have ended their relationship with the one they love only for them to regret it later. A little self-control could have saved their relationship. Because we are fundamentally different in several ways, we should learn to be tolerant in relationship.

When your partner fails to turn up for a date and kept you waiting endlessly at the restaurant or home, don't lose your head. That shouldn't be the end of the road. Don't end the relationship because of that. Get to hear from your partner what happened. When you see your partner chatting and laughing with an opposite sex, don't lose your head. It may not be what you think. Be calm. When your partner is not picking or returning your calls or fails to reply your sms/email, don't lose your head. That is not enough reason to end the relationship. Get to know the cause of his/her action.

Misunderstanding is a regular occurrence in relationships, but self-control will go a long way to keep the relationship going. If you believe that you love your partner, then do everything necessary to protect your relationship with him/her. And that includes showing understanding in a matured and loving way.

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