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DON'T DECLARE 'WAR' ON YOUR EX----BY ANDREW ADEDAYO ADETOYE.

The collapse of a relationship shouldn't lead to 'war'. I have noticed a very ugly trend, cases where people turns out to become the worst enemies of their ex, a situation where people deploy everything at their disposal to fight whatever is left of their ex. They do this ugly thing simply because their relationship with their ex went bad and broke up. Let me say this; A broken relationship is bad enough, and I understand the pain it comes with. You going all out to see to the downfall of your ex is not going to do you any good. The time and energy you waste trying to avenge yourself can be put into re-building your life and moving on.

Don't create a thick cloud of blackness over your life as a result of your refusal to let go. Your life is greater than the hurt you face, and the future ahead of you is brighter than today.

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