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POLL: YOUNG PEOPLE'S VIEWS OF TRUE LOVE.

Love is somewhat complex to a lot of people, and more often than not, it is expressed with deep emotions. We put forward the following photo quote online for discussion, and asked young people, aged 18-35 to give their thoughts on it. Responses were both revealing and divergent.

Responses [Unedited]

  • Okoro Queen I like dis
  • Nick Roberson Sounds like low self esteem to me. In a relationship, love is a two way communication and should be communicated by both individuals. If a woman finds herself doing any of the above, she does not truly understand the meaning of true love and is living a co-dependent life!
  • Theresa Nwakaego How can all I do be cry and cry, is that what love is about?
  • Ikubor Vera Totally agree wit u nick
  • Adenike Datjtowngal Ayeni I agree wit Nick, if u luv him en he luvs sum1 else, meanin he wasnt made 4 u, its jst left 4 u to realise dis en move 4ward, TRUE LOVE is a two-way tin, "i love u, n u love me"... Y keep cryin 4 sum1 u mean notin to???
  • Akinsanya Funmilayo I love dis
  • Ikubor Vera Love is not pain o...u cant be in love wit some one and all d person does is make u cry and cry..love is not stupid, so dont act stupid cos of love.
  • Ikubor Vera Lovin d right person wit constant communication and committment is so much fun...its not pain. How long do u want to keep cryin...neva let any man make u av low self esteem...
  • Idara Imaikop Dats no luv, wat kind of luv is dat?
  • Idara Imaikop Dis's mad luv
  • Mich-lynn Chuks Hehe... i thnk i knw dt feel buh blv me ts being stupid n hatin ursef cos if u do luv ursef u wldnt tie ursef dwn wt sm1 dt maks u a cry baby. I bliv in luv buh no mata wt it gotta b controlled. Dnt b a FOOL.
  • Thanh Lai Qqeen if he dont leave me alone.. i'll love him..
  • Abosede Wemy Someone who truly loves u will neva like seeing u cry! Love is reciprocal.
  • Robert Irek F up write up
  • Idara Imaikop Fuck n screw luv
  • Usang James Hmmm..wat a serious case..
  • Usang James If d girl truly luvs d boi,despite d fact dt d guy is nt doing well 'always mks are cry,nt dey 4 her..'She won't leave d guy..every 1 can b so stupid bcos of luv..u cn do eny tin all in d name of luv..
  • Usang James ‎@Adenike ayeni.... Dey's notin lik hw luv was made 4 d both of us..bcos if u don't wrk 4 ur luv,tins won't wrk well 4 u..
  • Adenike Datjtowngal Ayeni Usang, i didnt get u, make urself clear pls!
  • Idara Imaikop Lol 2 ur comment@ usang
  • Prince Eyo Endurance Yeah u r on point.
  • Usang James ‎@adenike..I ova heard u tellin nick dt..since tins has nt been goin on well 4 d both of dem,it simply means dt dey were nt made 4 each oda..so wat am tryin 2 say is dt..God did nt mk a covenant rite 4rm birth dt u're goin 2 meet a lady nd den date are..4rm datin her,mary her..no I don't bliv on dt..u're d 1 dt will luk 4 a girl..nd wit out u wrkin 4 ur luv,ur luv won't wrk 4 u d way u 1nt it 2 b...
  • Usang James So if she really luv d guy..let her continue talking 2 d guy..1 day d guy will realize it dt wat he is doin is wrong..dt since d girl has been disturbin her 4 yrs nw..it means dt she really luv him...d guy will nw surkum 2 d girls wishes..
  • Adenike Datjtowngal Ayeni So wot u'r tryin to say is dat d gal shld keep foolin en hurtin herself ova sum guy who doesnt give a f*ck bout her en who's njoyin himself wit sum1 else?
  • Usang James If d girl truly luv d guy..let her keep on talkin 2 d guy..1 day d guy will change his mind nd say dt since d girl has been disturbin im lik dis..it means dt she really luv Im..nd dey will start livin a betta life
  • Adenike Datjtowngal Ayeni Ooo pls be practical n realistic here! Its obvious d guy doesnt want her, she has to pick up herself en move 4ward to sumtin beta, wen he cums bck to his senses, he shld come begging, dats if it wont be too late! U wldnt knw d value of wot u have till its gone!
  • Adenike Datjtowngal Ayeni Any gal who acts dis way (goin wit wot Usang is sayin), has a very low self-esteem en she doesnt knw wot she's worth! She needs a shrink to help her build up her self-esteem!
  • Idara Imaikop Usang wat kind of a guy re u? Is d guy in questn d only guy in d world or in naija 2 b precise dat d gal has 2 kip fooling herself, it obvious dat d guy dnt luv her. She should 4get d guy.
  • Thanh Lai Qqeen huhuhuhu;(the love stories..
  • Ikubor Vera Every lady should know wen a man is draggin his feet. A lady who knows her worth and has a healthy self esteem wont act stupid over a man..but will talk to him, advice him several times and den watch his reaction wich will in turn determines her next step.
  • Abosede Wemy The fact that you luv someone doesn't me he/she shud take you for a fool,or threat u anyhow. If ur relationship is nt working out despit ur commitment,my dear best thing to do is to find ur way out n give another person a chance. U can fall in luv as many timex as possible. Be wise!
  • Robert Irek Wat d fuck are u guyz tlkn abt 'did guyz knw wat sum galz are made of devil in d inside human in d outside if she luv let prove it
  • Rita Odion Oriabure thats not love, its foolishness. Love is blind but not foolish.
  • Usang James Nice comment..@robert irek..2 mi dts my own way if I 1nt 2 knw if d girl truly luvs mi..I don't knw abt d rest of u..
  • Idara Imaikop Lolzzzzzz
  • Adenike Datjtowngal Ayeni ‎@Usang, am sori 4 u, cos u'd loose sum1 who rilli luvs u wen usin foolish en self-fish ways to knw if she truly luvs u! Guy, Gals aint fools anymore so u too be WISE!!!
  • Ikubor Vera ‎@adenike....i love dat...gails aint fools anymore
  • Robert Irek Set a trap 4 a gal nw u find out dat she wil fal it sumtymz u ave pretend as if u dnt rilly care n see if she rilly luv u .
  • Adenike Datjtowngal Ayeni I dnt have tym arguing wit u guys(Robert n Usang), do woteva u wanna do, buh wen u loose sum1 dat rilli luvs u or sum1 u luv cos u were takin her 4 granted, dnt say 'Adenike Datjtowngal Ayeni' didnt tell u! Am out!

    Peace!!!
  • Usang James Eh...bye bye..
  • Robert Irek Watever hw ever we knw hw treat dem bitchez am in skul were galz bhave as if deir parent are dangotez n bill gate @adenike u no go understnd until u enter igbinz
  • Idara Imaikop Nawa o
  • Theresa Nwakaego Its a pity that young men and women of these days do not have strength of character. Developing a character of integrity,honesty,value for human life,character of purpose will help in relationships.
  • Robert Irek ‎@tessy gud tlk bt wat abt d galz
  • Theresa Nwakaego My dear,these apply to everyone. Read from the 1st line.
  • Mike Abiodun Hmnn...Speechless.lol!

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