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''I'LL KISS YOU....BUT...!''

To be frank, the feelings of love can run so strongly within the soul until one is completely immersed in it. Many times, we are victims of our own passion that we are unable to control. This is the crux in an attempt to establish if what we are feeling for an opposite sex is love, infatuation or just crush. Talking with young people, both sexes, over time, I sometime get confused in the midst of counseling when trying to know if the counsellee's dilemma is love, infatuation or crush. Oftentimes, the counsellee cannot explain it all. 


When a lady breaks down in tears because the guy she has strong feelings for is not 'reciprocating' the same feelings, there is the need for her to sit back, think again, and ask herself, ''What if this guy marries someone else, would I drop dead, or would life go on for me?'' A guy in similar situation should appraise his feelings asking himself the same question. This is important to everyone who is in love with someone who is not returning the love. You need to confront yourself with frantic reality of life.


And when that guy or lady you have strong feelings for ask you for a kiss, you should respond, ''I'll kiss you....but...!'' The 'but' has a lot to it. Get to know his/her true feelings for you, so that you don't end up destroying your emotions with false expectations. If he/she doesn't feel the way you feel about your relationship, it is a sign that you should move on with your life in time before things get complicated for you. How you handle your love emotions can either make or mar you.

---A.A. Adetoye

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