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''FORGIVE AND MOVE ON''---A Message By Pastor Bimbo Odukoya. Click & Read.

The deepest hurts and pains are expereienced when someone we trust betrays that trust. Most of us are slow to open up to people. We tend to guard ourselves and those who are close to us, and so when we eventually draw people into our lives, homes and even businesses, and they stab us in the back, the pain felt is usually very deep. The hurt feelings can be so intense that if we are not careful, everything else in our lives might grind to a halt.

The greatest injustice a person who has been hurt can do to himself is to hold on to that hurt. While it is true that you might not be able to determine the hurts that comes your way, you can however decide how long that hurt or the effects of that hurt stays in your life.

People get damaged in life when they let what others have done them determine who they become in life. Many of the successful people in the world today have been betrayed or hurt by someone they trusted at one time or the other; what made them stand out is their decision not to let their past hinder their future.

If you have been hurt or betrayed by somebody you trusted before, I want you to understand one thing: no matter what man does to you, GOD will cause all things to work on for your good. Focus on GOD, HE is your Helper and Healer. HE will help you and turn things around. You have a tomorrow, you have a future, so just FORGIVE AND MOVE ON.

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