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POLL: HOW DO YOU REACT TO PRE-WEDDING INFIDELITY? Nigerian Youths Speaks! Add Your Own Voice Too.









What do young people think about pre-wedding crises bothering on infidelity? Shock, and all manner of responses greeted our poll:

ISSUE:

48 hours to your wedding, you wanted to see your chief bride's maid who also is your closest friend and confidant. There is this urgent matter you wanted to discuss with her. On arrival at her residence, you were told that she left home two hours ago. As you pondered where on earth she might have gone knowing fully well that you both have an appointment to see and discuss that morning. Then you called her mobile number but it's switched off. You waited for her to return for about an hour, then you decided to go to the bank to withdraw some money to settle some stuff. But on your way out of that street, you opted to take some snacks at the fast food restaurant situated at the end of the street because you hadn't taken your breakfast that morning. You ordered what you wanted and sat down to eat. Then suddenly you saw your chief bride's maid and your fiance at the far-end corner of the restaurant engrossed in what you have no idea about. Obviously, they didn't take notice of you when you entered the restaurant. Immediately, you lost appetite and your decision was to keep your eyes on them to know what exactly is going on. You got the shocker when they sipped what is left in their glasses, kissed each other passionately, and got up to leave. In this state of mind, what are you going to do?
 
 
Facebook Responses:

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  • Chukwu Lynn Go on wit d weddin buh my husband wil wish he neva met me cos of hw we will live I mean like strangers as 4 my so called bst frnd I wunt do anythn cos I bliv strongly in nemesis
     
  • Chukwu Lynn I will only go on wit d weddin if m truly in love wit d guy cos I knw I wil forgive someday buh he will pay first

     
  • Alexander Udofia na wa oh.am lost 4 words.

     
  • Bhusarey Abiodun Little Bee For me, I wil stop d wedding, and make such, they both pay for it.

     
  • Bhusarey Abiodun Little Bee For me, I wil stop d wedding, and make such, they both pay for it.

     
  • Solomon Junior I wil nt atend d wedin.cos if we get married he wil stil cheat on mi

     
  • Sandra Chinonso Christian i'l cut hiz ballz n feed dem 2 ma best frnd 2 eat....

     
  • Ikubor Vera Every body deserves a second chance only if they ar truely repentant....
     
  • Sandra Chinonso Christian @vera nt everi1

     
  • Ikubor Vera Why

     
  • Sandra Chinonso Christian kuz sum of dem r xo xo ungrateful n cn du mo dan wat dy did b4 xo etz unli God d@ cn giv dem a second chance......

     
  • Ikubor Vera Dats why i said if only dey ar truely repentant. God cannot convert a man except he is willin to surrender to him.

     
  • Sandra Chinonso Christian yea d@z tru i agree wif d@.....

     
  • Ikubor Vera Love is all abt patience and forgiveness. Cos nobody is perfect. But in all love is respect. D fact dat every one deserves a second chance doesnt mean we should misuse d first chance...

     
  • Sandra Chinonso Christian kuz pple r xo imposible....

     
  • Ikubor Vera Exactly
     
  • Barika Gift Hmmmmmmm speechless

     
  • Ikubor Vera Why?...@gift

     
  • Barika Gift Becos is wickedness

     
  • Barika Gift Ma own frnd wit ma own husband 2 b in 48hr time,i wil 4give him bcos i luv him bt wil neva trust him
     
  • Ikubor Vera Really? Why wont u trust him again afta forgivin him
     
  • Favour Elijah 4 me I wil cal off d wedding cos I dnt knw wat dey ave on dere sleeve
     
     
  • Ikubor Vera No man is an ireland.
     
  • Catherine Anaborhi 1wounders shall, never end . call d wedding.
     
  • Cornelius Bassey All u need to do is to pray and ask God for direction.
 

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