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POLL: WOULD YOU DOUBLE-DATE?

We wanted to get the feeling of young people regarding the issue of double-dating, and we posed the following case study, and got revealing responses:

''Your ex- left you for another person, and that almost cost you your life. You survived that relationship heart-break, and you've moved on with your life. Two years later, you got engaged in another relationship and you're happy with your new partner. But now, your ex-, who you love so much and still have feelings for, is back and is doing everything possible to get your love & attention again. Would you abandon your current relationship and return to your ex-? Or would you ignore your ex- and remain committed to your new partner? Or would you double-date? Be honest.''
 
Responses [Unedited] :
 
 

  • Margaret Edet I'll double date bt wont sleep wit my ex....m just doin dat to knw who trully luvs me..

  • Ebenezer Abiodun Abosede Lol
    I won't give him ma hrt 2 ma ex again
    I call him and ask yy he left me 4 anoda persin and came back again
    I won't let him sleep wif me but I ll give it a try

  • Awatt Onoyom Mehn My ex is ma ex! No compromise of any sort! Although it gon hurt bt she has 2 bounce she neva luvd u wat maks u think she's gon luv u nw!......u neva cn tell her main motive of comn bck tk note

  • Okewumi Tobi once its ova its ova nothing can change dat. I'l continue with d present and forget d past.

  • Ijeoma Chukwuka I wil remain in my newly found luv.My ex dnt worth me cuz if he does he wouldn't av left me 4 anoda.U neva can tell he's motive,wateva dt made he leave in d 1st place can stil make him leave again and u won't wnt dat 2 happen again.Off and On luv is nt luv

  • Princess Ovine Isodje Margaret, Abeg what do u mean by ''I will double date bt wont sleep with my ex''.?

  • Abosede Wemy The only tin dat wil make me accept him is probably i want 2 revenge.i cant love or trust him the way i used 2.i'll rather old my new love tight.

  • Sandy Junior I tink d best way 2 dis is 2 stick 2 d new found lv n 4get abt d X

  • Francis Efe Got nothing to do with mai ex anymore, just let go off her and move on with mai new love.

  • Alex Lexydgreat Udofia I'll stick to d current woman and beat up my ex if she comes close to me.

  • Tracey Maluleke I'd sty wit ma new lover, i mean yhrs a reason his on da past n i dnt blv in lov bcks

  • Chris IKuba S There's definitely somthing that had made me lov her(ma ex) so much,first I'll consider somthings,like why she left,was it ma fault or hers,well,if it was my fault then I gat to give her a go,but if it wasn't,it's either maybe I had loved her too much that she got scared of me,and if that is d probs,then I will love her miley,just hw much she loves me back.cos I no it won't be easy to get on wit ma "new"no matter wat,as long as ma ex is hooving around.I might just observe her 4 a time,n figure out w@ she is realy upto.

  • Jane Uzi Ufoegbu i can't go back 2 my vomit.

  • Abamson Sampson I can't take her back. That's d emphatic truth.

  • Dorathy Chinyere Oko ‎4 me,i will stick to my new lover n nt go back 2 my ex.

  • Idara Imaikop I'll stick 2 my new luver, no tym 4 ma ex.........he should go 2 hel

  • Shade Wahab I remain with my new lover,i cant go back 2 my EX.he shld go luk 4 som1 else.no me cos i cant go back 2 my vomit

  • Joy A Kudehinbu I'll stay wit my new guy. Wat if somethin terrible had happened 2 me would he hv com back

  • Faloni Moyosore Adejumobi The major truth is,there is no one that can love to that extent and desires to let the one he/she loves to suffers that much without even looking back for many years and later just shown later desiring to have me back just like that. What even if by such incident one losses is own life? the truth is,i will foreverly stick to my new lover and face life squarely. Yoruba bo won ni''iru eniyan wa..iru olorun oba ni o sii''.

  • Margaret Edet Ebony wat dnt yu understand???

  • Princess Ovine Isodje I dont undastand wat u mean by saying u will double date bt won't sleep with ur ex. As far as am concerned, they are thesame tin. Afterall, u won't tell ur present boyfriend dat u ar still seeing ur ex, bt u ar nt sleeping wit him, or will u?

  • Maxwell Chuks ‎4 me, 2yrs is enough 2 4get her.it's d fact.she left me b4,hw are my sure she wouldn't do it again-pls!life goes on

  • Oriade Dennis Ehinmola once beaten, twice shy, if you see such an ex, pls run 4 ur life, forget such relationship cos I know how u feel right now, talking from experience.

  • Oriade Dennis Ehinmola don't doubt me

  • Idara Imaikop Making much sense

  • Monday Alefia Am sorry i must be sincere here.1st i will welcome her.secondly i will do my best to secure my new love. thirdly i will make he fall more in love with me while i pretend to love her then lastly i break her heart the same way she did to me and after that even though it will not be easy for me i will make her my worst enemy

  • Buturo Jose Douglas Junior There's †ђξ sayin dt der Ȋ̝̊̅ڪ a̶̲̥̅ reason D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ didn't make it to Ūя̲̅ future, Ȋ̝̊̅†§ simple cuz D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥γ̲̣̣̥ α̲̅я̩̥̊ε̲̣̣̣̥ nw Ūя̲̅ past!! We Αℓℓ gat to β wise cuz nt Αℓℓ relationship leads to MARRIAGE......

  • Okah Stephen I will continue wit ma current one,cos if d ex shld come bk dat is washing and setting.

  • Okpamu Gina If he left me before,if given d chance he will do it again.ill never go back to him,

  • Sandy Junior Sumtymz d best way 2 move 4ward is 2 4get abt d past. Stay wit d present n live d past(ur x)

  • Joy Innocent maxwell only u na men.id luv ur comment.

  • Blessing Ogar Ettah Godforbid,leave ma new luv 4 dat fool.i dey mad?

  • Blessing Ogar Ettah Godforbid,leave ma new luv 4 dat fool.i dey mad?

  • Angel Effiong ‎4 wat?Dat's rubbish, I will b with my new luv he can go 2 hell.....

  • Jemimah Abrakson let bi-gone be bi-gone pls.

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