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FALL IN LOVE WITH YOUR KITCHEN!



What is this argument about the KITCHEN?

"Why should men be in the Kitchen?"
"Why should women be in the Kitchen?"

I'm wondering, what is wrong with the Kitchen? Why are people avoiding the Kitchen? Why are we arguing about who should and who shouldn't be in the Kitchen?

This desecration of the Kitchen should henceforth STOP!
Have we forgotten that it is the Kitchen that feeds the BODY that houses the SOUL? That makes the Kitchen sacred!


"I'm a man...." So because you're a man you shouldn't mind how your SOUL is housed or how the housing of  your SOUL is catered for? What is wrong with entering the Kitchen and preparing what caters for  your BODY and extending that care to your family if you're married? What is wrong if a man who doesn't know how to Cook commit to learning it? What is wrong if you factor the Kitchen into your daily schedule and equation? What is wrong if our sons learn and know how to Cook? 



"I'm a working career woman." So because you're a working career woman your BODY does not deserve the kind of delicacy only you knows how to prepare? The truth is you know what you BODY wants better than anyone else.  Agreed, you can hire a Chef/HouseHelp to handle your Cooking, or outsource to restaurant, etc, but your Health remain your personal responsibility. So it won't do any harm if you consciously care for YOU and your family if you're married, particularly what everyone eats, ensuring that from time to time, you handle the Cooking yourself. 



There is more to the Kitchen that we should know.
Even when you're tired, the Kitchen has a way of resting you.
When you're nervous, the Kitchen has a way of calming your nerves.
When you're afraid, the Kitchen has a way of giving you courage.
When you need inspiration, the Kitchen has a way of giving you lot of it. 



The Kitchen will probe you and you must respond with mastery, or at least, with intense interest to become better at what you do with it.

Finally, fall in love with your Kitchen. Make it how you want it to look like.  Drag yourself into it when you're tired and find comfort in its waiting arms. Man or Woman, make it an hobby to be in the Kitchen as frequent as you can. PEACE!

Andrew Adedayo Adetoye

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