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When Your Husband Desire Body Or Love Of Other Women







If at anytime you find photos of naked women in your husband's smartphone or laptop, or you discover exchange of romantic text messages or emails between your husband and another woman, DON'T take it too personal. Take a deep breath, calm down, relax and know it is time to get your husband back.
But you won't get your husband back by fighting him. You won't get your husband back by calling, abusing and cursing the woman he is supposedly having affair with.


Sit back, reflect and ask yourself:
1. Is this the man I married?
2. What has gone wrong between us that made my husband to keep naked photos of women?
3. Why is my husband having an affair with someone else? Am I the cause?


Evaluate your relationship with your husband. It won't be easy for you, we admit. But this will kick-start the process to get your husband back.
Psychologically, you've lost your husband, and you need to get him back.
Hold your calm for three days. Don't let him know about your discoveries. Wear your smile as always and go about your normal tasks.


Three days later, in the bedroom with your husband, we want you to lead him on to make love to you. How you will go about it is up to you. You know your husband when it comes to lovemaking and you know what turns him on. 




Use all your GOD-given wisdom and feminine power to lead him on to make love to you. When you get him in the mood, and the act begins, give him everything called romance, and give him more. Let loose, and let him wonder if this is the woman he married. Satisfy all his fantasies and let know you are the queen he married and you are still beautiful.




When the love act is done, look him into the eyes and tell him how much you love him. Remind him you made a pledge on your wedding day to love him all your life. 


As he stares at you wondering why you are saying those words, go pick his smartphone or laptop, open the nude photos and messages and say to him, "My love, I want us to delete these photos and messages. And with your permission, I will delete them now."


Don't wait for him to say anything. Begin to delete the nude photos and messages while he looks on. You are in control now to save your marriage..




Whatever explanation he has to give you later, you should answer with wisdom and love and let him know you both must protect youtr marriage. It's a mutual responsibility.



 Article By The FAMILY AND DOMESTIC DISPUTE RESOLUTION CENTER, a CSR initiative of SIMOL in support of the marriage institution. 

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