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LOVE & MATCH-MAKING BY ANDREW ADEDAYO ADETOYE

Match-making isn't as easy as one may think it is. Love is very important in any relationship that is expected to culminate in marriage, and when the two people to be match-make are unable to find love in their individual hearts for each other, then the match-making process becomes really tedious. Sharing common values is a catalyst for finding love. When you find yourself at the center of match-making, and an opposite sex is linked to you, just relax and take your time to know that person. Don't be in an hurry. You have waited this long, and there is no need to mess things up now.

Get to find the real thing in that opposite sex that interest you the most. Let love build up in your heart, though it comes slowly in most match-making process. There is nothing wrong with match-making. Make up your mind to cooperate with the match-maker, be it a clergy, relative, friend, relationship expert or a concerned person. If you know how to pray, then commit yourself to prayer throughout the process of match-making. Once you are convinced that he/she is NOT the person for your life, there is no need trying to make things work. End the process and move on to the next. At the end of the day, it is you, not the match-maker, that must take responsibility for the success or failure of your marriage.

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